Communicating with Dad

Although people with Alzheimer’s disease gradually lose the ability to use words to express and understand ideas, they do retain the ability to communicate emotionally.  They can comprehend the meaning of a hug, a handshake, and a loving or disapproving glance.

Improving you own communication:

There are several things you can do to improve your own communication

• Explain what is going to happen
• Use short, simple sentences, being specific and direct about what you mean.
• Use contract and common words, not abstract or fancy words.  For example say “use” instead of “utilize.”
• Avoid clichés such as “A slip of the tongue” or “Don’t cry over spilt milk.”
• Use the proper names and common nouns.
• If the person has trouble understanding what you are saying:  repeat what you said twice.  Revise and restate using different words.
• Assume the person can understand more than he or she can express.
• Avoid logical discussions or debates.  Instead, respond to the feeling that the individual is expressing.
• When asking a question, limit the number of answers or choices.
• When giving instructions, give one direction at a time, breaking the task into small steps.  Allow time for completion of each direction before you go on.

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